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As the attorneys and adjuster hammered out the settlement agreement in the main conference room, I passed the smaller room and saw the plaintiff weeping. I’ve also seen some very angry defendants. I have had to take steps to assure that parties didn’t feel ramrodded into settlement.
These are extreme examples of a situation which could lead to a second lawsuit, this time for legal malpractice, a phenomenon called “Settle and Sue.”
Be Realistic
At intake, some attorneys will provide prospects a rosy picture of their likely outcome to induce them to sign a retainer agreement. (I know. You’re shocked, right?) Then, as time passes and expenses mount, that favorable outcome no longer seems so inevitable.
At this point, clients may seek new counsel. But they might not be successful. That could be due to a large lien for advanced costs or because other attorneys are wary of working with what could be the client from hell. If the client has already gone through two attorneys, the third lawyer on the case is likely to see a history of problems.
Even when attorneys strive for transparency at intake, there are usually twists betwixt intake and mediation.
Keep the Client Informed
And that’s why it’s so important to let the client know what is happening in a timely fashion and how it affects the evaluation of the case. Even if the professional’s evaluation of the case is unchanged, it’s important to inform the client of major events such as receipt of discovery or hearings.
Will the client actually read these status reports? Perhaps not. But a well-drafted report will explain what is happening in easily understandable language. When the client expresses dismay at first learning about adverse information during mediation, it helps to have copies of the status reports readily available.
Unreasonable Client Demands
Clients get information from many mass media sources. For example, if a TV show or Google says important information can be extracted from the opponent’s cell phone, a client may demand that the attorney hire an expert to do just that. These types of demands may be cost-prohibitive or simply not going to be helpful for this situation. Even when clients are told that the procedure they want will cost, say, $100,000, they may grumble now, but later claim that the attorney’s refusal to comply with a “simple request” is what forced them to agree to a terrible settlement. Documenting the substance and outcome of these conversations is critical.
Prepare for Settlement
I’m amazed at the mediation participants who show up with what seems like willful ignorance of the case. Some parties cast aspersions on their opponents with little consideration of the merits. Participants need to pay attention to others’ input, not brush it off. Some participants in remote mediation seems to be barely there; yet, they are being asked to make important decisions.
Getting these folks to pay attention at mediation can be a challenge for me and their representatives. If an attorney does manage to wrangle a settlement, participants with buyer’s remorse could later threaten a legal malpractice action.
How the Mediator Helps
As mediator, at the outset I always tell participants that nothing can happen without their consent. When it’s time to document a settlement, settlement terms should be carefully reviewed with the parties to make sure there is no misunderstanding. Parties should not feel coerced to enter what they view as an unjust settlement.

Injury claimants usually continue to treat. This increases the likelihood of compensable side effects, such as from medication or due to mental illness. Not only does the patient undergo additional medical procedures, but the cost of those procedures rises. A study by the Institute for Legal Reform found that tort costs grew at an annual rate faster than inflation, averaging 7.1 percent between 2016 and 2022.

The expert, a speaker at a major litigation management conference I had spoken at many times myself, advised defense counsel and claims professionals, “Don’t poke the sleeping bear.” The message was that if the plaintiff wasn’t contacting the defense, the defense shouldn’t do anything to contact them: “If you haven’t heard anything from plaintiff’s lawyer, why do that?”
The expression “don’t poke the bear” is an admonition against angering or offending someone, particularly if that person is more powerful than you. Let’s first note that intentionally angering or offending your opponent is never a good litigation strategy. It’s also an ethical violation of rules that call for civility.
But let’s assume that this speaker was referring to innocuous communications. Yes, some claims professionals and counsel on both sides of a conflict don’t pay attention to their pending cases. Then they scramble to prepare for mandatory events. Sometimes I see these folks at mediation, and it is obvious they haven’t prepared at all. Let’s call them the teddy bears. They’re not fierce.
But what if that silence masks the activities of a fierce bear who is gathering evidence and research to take a big bite out of your case? If you aren’t regularly talking about the possibility of settlement, you may not learn the strengths and weaknesses of both of your cases until late in the game. That can impair your ability to properly prepare. Your opponent may have already battened down the stories of witnesses you didn’t know about, may have already retained the foremost expert, perhaps regarding a condition or circumstance you had not discovered. In one of my mediations, claimant’s counsel disclosed he had arranged for a famous grizzly to handle the trial if the case didn’t settle.
Because lawyers are required to transmit any offers of settlement to their clients, even when an attorney has been dilatory, the client may be anxious to end the dispute. Ongoing communications about settlement may entice a litigation-weary party.
Which Philosophy?
The answer to “Why do that?” is that regular communication amongst parties helps you scope out what those other folks are (or are not) doing. Regular communication creates a path to a fair, early settlement.
Obviously, every case has unique circumstances and participants which dictate litigation management choices. However, a deliberate choice to always go radio-silent could damage your client’s result.
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Then review one of your own recent cases. How well do you think you managed it on a scale of 1-10? What would it take for it to be have gone better? Did all your activity provide real value to the client? The answer isn’t in what others do; look for answers in the actions you control.
Pull out a closed file where things went really well. What was different? Did you periodically evaluate the case and timely communicate that evaluation to your client? Did you cultivate a collegial relationship with your opponent who can help you work through information—or view that person as an enemy?
Create a Miracle
Find the main obstacle to getting to your goal. Then focus your attention on resolving that one thing. In his book Reset: How To Change What’s Not Working, Dan Heath calls that the Leverage Point. A little bit of effort focused on fixing the Leverage Point will yield disproportionate returns.
If a miracle happened tomorrow to resolve the bulk of obstacles to quick resolution of your cases, what would that look like? That’s your Leverage Point.
Prioritize resolving that issue. If your first concerted efforts aren’t working, move on to a different solution.

I recently read Magic Words: What To Say to Get Your Way by Johan Berger. The book does not specifically target legal disputes. Here are some suggestions based on my interpretation of some of his conclusions.
“You’re a Problem Solver”
Berger says using a verb to urge someone to do something is not as effective as flattering them with a noun. He tells how a teacher gets children to cooperate by telling them to be a helper rather than to help. It turns out that the verb implies that the action will be limited, and this is not a great motivator. Describing someone with a noun, however, implies that this is a person’s positive, permanent characteristic.
Urging your negotiating opponent to solve a problem may not be as effective as saying, “I know you’re a problem solver.”

Use the Same Language As Your Listener
I joke that I speak several languages: Lawyer, Insurance, and English. Lawyers and claims people have their own jargon. So do corporate bureaucrats.
Much of the back and forth between professionals goes over the head of others who may be at the mediation table. Talk about fixing rather than resolving the situation. Be specific. When parties do not understand what is being negotiated on their behalf, it can be a recipe for disaster when the proposed settlement blows up
Use Emotion
Berger says focusing on emotion can sell an idea more than relying on facts. Mediation participants sometimes cling to their version of the facts, even when that stubbornness results in the disproportionate expenditure of time, money, and stress. Sometimes it’s better to talk about the emotional relief a settlement can bring—even when the dispute on its face is between companies.
Show You’re Listening
Negotiation lessons always talk about active listening. Berger, too, emphasizes the importance of making someone feel heard. To do that, demonstrate that you were paying attention to what was said. Respond with enough specificity to show you understood the other person’s point. Responses like “That’s interesting” don’t do that. Repeat or paraphrase portions of what you heard.
Mediation is the Place

If the case does not settle at that mediation, an accurate record of the negotiation will help you move forward strategically so you are in the best possible position for the next mediation session.
A big interest of mine is art theft and art forgery. Experts estimate that at least 20-50% of the art in the world’s major art museums and on the commercial art market is fake. How could this be?
The Value of Evidence
Three types of evidence support or debunk the authenticity of art:
-Forensics: scientific testing to prove the age of an object or if a work was created using materials which did not yet exist at the time the work was supposedly created
-Provenance: the provable history of ownership of an object
-Connoisseurship: expert analysis of the style of a work, looking at details like brushstroke.
It is this last category which is the stickiest and the most instructive. Experts can render opposing opinions.

At the other extreme, some experts refuse to modify their opinion to accept a work’s authenticity in the face of overwhelming evidence. The BBC investigative television show Fake or Fortune confirmed the provenance and forensics of a painting supposedly created by Claude Monet. That’s the picture above. Eminent art experts examined the painting and the evidence and concluded that, yes, Monet was the artist.
The Paris-based Wildenstein Institute was the definitive worldwide authority on what works belong in Monet’s oeuvre. However, the Wildenstein refused to recognize the work as genuine on the ground that they believed the style of this painting did not match Monet’s other works. The British owner of the painting sued to force Wildenstein to include the work in its catalogue raisonné of Monet’s works, but the French court declined to intervene. After several unrelated scandals, the Wildenstein Institute is no longer operating.
Confirmation Bias
A well-known obstacle to meaningful negotiation is confirmation bias, the willingness to only accept information which reinforces a person’s already held beliefs. Whether the issue is liability, damages, or the authenticity of an artwork, the refusal to consider all of the evidence and adjust one’s position to account for it gets in the way of an accurate assessment of the circumstances.